An Insight Into Success – A Quick Tip
Many people reading so-called Personal Development or self improvement articles or self help books will be familiar with the concept known as the Law of Attraction – that you bring into your life the things that you want out of life. Many such articles or books tell great feel-good stories about how the whole process has worked, seemingly effortlessly, for some people – these are held up as perfect examples of people who live the dream.
But then I’d be extremely wealthy if I had a dollar for every individual who said me “Why does this damn Law of Attraction not work for me?” More often than not, the answer is staring them in the face – either they don’t know what they really want or they keep changing their goals. The normal adult is like a youngster in a sweetshop – all those goodies, so much temptation “I want some of those ones – no, can I have some of that instead!”
To achieve what you want from life requires a spot on definition of success – obviously unique to you – and, after that, being ruthlessly single-minded. I don’t mean being ruthless towards others in terms of walking over them as you climb the ladder of your dream. I mean being ruthless with your own focus in terms of mental discipline. And discipline is what is called for because the normal mind is notoriously all over the place. For a start, just think about how many times your mind has wandered today. Think about how often what you think you want out of life changes – it’s as variable as the Irish weather (if you’re Irish, I’m only joking!)
Decide on your definition of success and stick to it – single-mindedly. I’m not suggesting that you tie yourself down to “I must have this” or “I must have that” – that’s stupid, in doing that you’re ignoring all your other options. And that’s the problem – normal people think that you define success in terms of the things that you have. No – success is how you feel. Success comes from within, not from having lots of nice things. Again, don’t misunderstand what I’m saying, I’m not saying nice things are bad – nice things are, well, nice! But success is something else altogether – it’s about being carefree, what it feels like to “have it all” whatever having it all means for you in terms of feeling just perfect about yourself and your life.
You need to picture what living the dream would look like, feel like, sound like, smell like and taste like – the five sensory language that ignites your subconscious mind. You need to know what your picture of success is like – as if you have it already – without any preconditions on the actual components in terms of work, career, business or money and without any preconceived notions about how you have achieved “it all” – just give yourself the five sensory experience of what it’s like to have arrived. Because, when you do actually arrive, that’s true success.